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As
you know, I write, coach and do seminars
on helping people find their passion and
build their lives around doing what they
love. I know one of the big challenges
in the process is to stay motivated, and
the secret to staying motivated is to
continually check in with yourself and
clarify where you are.
10
tips to keep you on track:
- Shake
things up. Change your scenery. Go somewhere
and do something different.
- Engage
in a confidante who will help be your
sounding board.
- Keep
a journal of your experiences, goals
and dreams.
- Remember
to keep a sense of adventure.
- Have
fun, freedom and meaning in all you
do.
- Enjoy
our physical surroundings.
- Be
a leader, a mentor.
- Be
a follower, have mentors.
- Enjoy
the camaraderie of your peers, colleagues,
clients.
- Live
your passion every day.
10
questions to help you gauge your motivation:
- Is
your lack of motivation short-term or
is it deeper than that?
- Are
you part of a team that makes you feel
good?
- Are
you working in isolation? Is that good
or bad for you?
- What
are the details of your daily tasks
you most enjoy and how can you incorporate
more of those into your life?
- What
are the details of your daily tasks
that you hate and how can you do less
of those?
- Can
you end each day by envisioning the
positive outcome of your work and the
successes, even the smallest ones?
- Do
you surround yourself with uplifting
people?
- Do
you practice good self-care techniques?
- Can
you see the long-term rewards of what
you're doing?
- Are
you doing something each day that moves
you toward your goal?
Once
you've answered these questions for yourself,
you'll be able to target where you're
blocked. If you see a trend, for example,
tasks that drain you or people who drain
your energy on a consistent basis, you'll
understand why you're being held back
from doing what you love. Then you can
take the necessary steps to rectify the
situation. If you need to speak to your
boss, a friend, your spouse or a coach,
do so.
Don't
forget to reward yourself. On a daily
basis, do what my daughter did when she
was in grade school; she kept a pile of
jelly beans on her desk and when she completed
a task, she'd have one. Replace one jelly
bean with a ton of them or better yet,
identify some things more exciting for
you than jelly beans and make sure you
have or do some of whatever it is every
day.
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